Thursday, April 21, 2011

April 21, 2011

You were the last thing on my mind before I went to sleep, and you were the first thing I thought about when I woke up this morning. Why can't I get you out of my mind? And Why are we always hurt by the people we care about most?

I happened to be the guy that slipped through your relationship filters, the one that didn't have to answer all your 496 questions before we started dating. For once, you actually listened to your heart and followed your feelings, and unfortunately you are very uncomfortable with that. You would rather trust an established process with decision gates that looks good on paper but never worked in the past, how many of those guys that passed your assessment actually became a good partner? How many of those are genuine in the way they feel about you? and how many of those actually cared about you? These are the questions you should be asking yourself, and it should trump anything any guy tells you.

You and I were together not because you gave me a free pass, you and I are together because we liked each other and are attracted to each other in many different ways, you followed your heart, not a list of things that need to be checked off.

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